First off I will apologize now for what you are about to read. I despise writing/talking about myself, but since that’s sort of the point of this page I figured I’d better come up with something.
Known as kasper by the online community, I was born on July 26th in Toronto, Ontario. I lived in London, Ontario briefly while wasting my time and my parent’s money at University, only to return to the greatest city in the world (okay, I might be biased). I am a very shy person who will never initiate a conversation. My lack of self-esteem keeps me very much to myself as I am afraid of being embarassed or having nothing intelligent to say. Despite my horoscope, I hate being the center of attention and generally like keeping a low profile. I enjoy spending time with friends, but find myself dodging contact often. I get socially overwhelmed and find myself shutting down. Though generally a sweet, patient, understanding person, I’ve been known to bite stupid people with my sarcasm. I am impulsive, but tend to overthink things. I often stress myself out thinking about finances, time and my weight. I am fickle and find myself starting multiple projects I never finish. Though never formally diagnosed with ADD, several online quizzes have corroborated my suspicions. I have a tough time keeping focused on details and find myself listening but not hearing conversations. I can’t seem to concentrate on one single task when on the computer and currently have 10 programs and 75 browser windows open (thanks Firefox). Most happy plunked down in front of my computer; I also enjoy music, movies, Sims2, books, knitting, and logic puzzles .
Most recently I got myself hitched to my long-time (11 years) bf “hubby” on November 3rd, 2006 and have had a son “baby D” on April 13, 2007. If you’re scrambling to do the math on that one, I’ll make it easier on you and tell you that ‘yes’ he was conceived before we got married, but was totally planned. I am currently on a year’s maternity leave from my job as a high school secretary, which I would love to make a permanent leave but figure finances will make that impossible. It’s been one of those situations where I loved my job and couldn’t imagine leaving it, but since having my son I don’t even want to think about going back.